40+ WAYS TO SPEAK HIS LOVE LANGUAGES

40+ WAYS TO SPEAK HIS LOVE LANGUAGES
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Every individual has a primary love language that we should learn to speak.
Naturally, we are expert in terms of speaking our own love languages.
Surprisingly enough, our husbands most times speak different love languages.
When we express love through our own inbuilt love languages but our partner doesn't seem to receive the love shown like we expect them to, we can experience emotional pain and sometimes disputes can arise.
To not allow conflict, we (women) should try and learn to speak our husbands' love language so that our love is well received.

Practical Ways to Speak His Love Language
PHYSICAL TOUCH
     Ensure you give him "just because" hugs + kisses
     Ensure you give him hugs + kisses as you thank him
     Always hold his hands while having discussions with him
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·           Massage his body (full body/back/scalp/foot)
     Ensure your leg is touching his when you are sitting together
     Brush and rub his back when you are sitting together
     Run your fingers playfully but gently through his hair
     Ensure there is eye to eye contact whenever you talk
ACTS OF SERVICE
     Ensure you do his chore.
     Pack his lunch
     Take his car in for servicing when necessary
     Take his car for a car wash
     Is there something he's been procrastinating? Help with his procrastination, help him do it
     Run errands for him
     Assist him with a house project
     Take his wears to the laundry

WORDS OF AFFIRMATIONS
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     Write him an encouraging and motivating letter
     Slip a note in his bag
     Brag about him especially when he’s with his friends and family
     Message him something that inspires and assures him 5 days in a row
     Praise and exalt him in front of your kids
     Appreciate him for the sacrifices he makes for the entire family
     By following Philippians 4:8, write down everything about him that is pure, true, just, worthy of praise, etc and hand it over to him
     Ask his friends and family to write down things they like and appreciate about him

QUALITY TIME
     Surprise him with a date at night.
     Give him a surprise with a getaway or a staycation.
     Go for a walk down the street or in the woods with him.
     Share a meal at a café.
     Welcome friends over for a game night
     Avoid looking at your phone when he's with you in the room
     Do lunch with him on a weekday
     Do something he likes without complaint
     Spend quality time with his family

GET HIM GIFTS
     Make a special delicacy or drink for him
     Surprise him with a trip to visit his best friends
     Go with him to a fancy restaurant
     Get him his favorite book/game.
     Get him a fruit tree/shrub
     Name a constellation after him
     Give him a surprise tickets to see his favorite sports team
     Buy and stock up on his favorite beer.







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