40+ WAYS TO SPEAK HIS LOVE LANGUAGES
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Every individual has a primary love language that we should learn to speak.
Naturally, we are expert in terms of speaking our own love languages.
Surprisingly enough, our husbands most times speak different love languages.
When we express love through our own inbuilt love languages but our partner doesn't seem to receive the love shown like we expect them to, we can experience emotional pain and sometimes disputes can arise.
To not allow conflict, we (women) should try and learn to speak our husbands' love language so that our love is well received.
Practical Ways to Speak His Love Language
PHYSICAL TOUCH
• Ensure you give him "just because" hugs + kisses
• Ensure you give him hugs + kisses as you thank him
• Always hold his hands while having discussions with him
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· Massage his body (full body/back/scalp/foot)
• Ensure your leg is touching his when you are sitting together
• Brush and rub his back when you are sitting together
• Run your fingers playfully but gently through his hair
• Ensure there is eye to eye contact whenever you talk
ACTS OF SERVICE
• Ensure you do his chore.
• Pack his lunch
• Take his car in for servicing when necessary
• Take his car for a car wash
• Is there something he's been procrastinating? Help with his procrastination, help him do it
• Run errands for him
• Assist him with a house project
• Take his wears to the laundry
• Write him an encouraging and motivating letter
• Slip a note in his bag
• Brag about him especially when he’s with his friends and family
• Message him something that inspires and assures him 5 days in a row
• Praise and exalt him in front of your kids
• Appreciate him for the sacrifices he makes for the entire family
• By following Philippians 4:8, write down everything about him that is pure, true, just, worthy of praise, etc and hand it over to him
• Ask his friends and family to write down things they like and appreciate about him
QUALITY TIME
• Surprise him with a date at night.
• Give him a surprise with a getaway or a staycation.
• Go for a walk down the street or in the woods with him.
• Share a meal at a café.
• Welcome friends over for a game night
• Avoid looking at your phone when he's with you in the room
• Do lunch with him on a weekday
• Do something he likes without complaint
• Spend quality time with his family
GET HIM GIFTS
• Make a special delicacy or drink for him
• Surprise him with a trip to visit his best friends
• Go with him to a fancy restaurant
• Get him his favorite book/game.
• Get him a fruit tree/shrub
• Name a constellation after him
• Give him a surprise tickets to see his favorite sports team
• Buy and stock up on his favorite beer.
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